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Continuing in our 24 years of service to the
spirit
of Clear and Compassionate
Communication and Skill Building for Business and
Personal
Growth.
It's Hi time again. How have you been?
I wonder if your experience is like mine as the
holidays approach. I’m eager to be with friends and
loved ones to celebrate the warmth we share and to
generously extend myself.
I’m also worried about money and business – how
can I keep up with my work in a productive manner if
I’m “off track” arranging my social calendar?
I’m determined to enjoy the holiday cheer and meet
my fiduciary and service responsibilities.
Is this true for you?:
Time is the invisible player in our business and
personal relationships. We don't really see it but we
feel its passing. We feel it creeping up upon us when
we're rushing to an appointment. We describe many
of our tasks as "time-sensitive". We defer to time as
our master, a kind of pace-car that leads us around
the track. But then the green light signals and off we
go in trying to "beat the clock", get to the finish,
make that "deadline". We want to be the winner in
the race against time.
Of course, there is the pit stop to consider. Fresh
tires, a new tank of gas, a breath of relief and a
pause to wonder: does time manage me or do I
manage my time? And then, a cause to ponder: how
do I tell the difference?
This Month's free $50 tip: Controlling the Clock: when the telephone tries to trip you up |
You're in the groove, hopefully, and in full stride in
the midst of a productive workday. And the phone
rings. (It might do that a lot in your workplace.) The
caller asks, "do you have a minute?" You may
start to feel your momentum shifting, or
slipping, and you want to stay on task. The first
step, therefore, is to realize that this is a very
important question that begs a very precise answer
in this very moment.
Your answer will sound like this: "Actually, I have 3
minutes and 29 seconds." This unusual use of
language will stimulate both you and the caller to
stay awake and focused for the time you have
agreed upon. So, set a timer for 2.5 minutes and
talk, and when the timer sounds tell your caller: "we
have one minute more, how can we wrap it
up?" Make another quick agreement and then work
quickly to a close. You have taken direct
responsibility for the management of your time and
more importantly succeeded in keeping hold of your
very valuable momentum. Now, here's the next step:
take another minute (set a timer), mildly pat
yourself on the back and direct kind words of praise
in your general direction. When the timer goes off
don't linger... get back to work.
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| Time is Money...or is it? |
It's a much-touted notion in the business world that
productivity equals success and success therefore is
measured by the money we extract from the bottom
line. It is the principle that propels us to prosper
from our daily vocations.
Somedays are better than others, though, as we all
know. Somedays we slay the dragon, other days the
dragon wins. Or so it may seem. On those "losing"
days when we feel the heat of the scaly beast
lighting
a fire under our proverbial chairs, it may serve us to
remember that there is productivity even when we
seem to be going down in flames.
Today, for example, you might be saying to yourself:
I'm distracted by too many
phone calls, too many people coming and going,
concerned about the unfinished details of an art
exhibition I want to take my wife to see, too hungry
to focus... Today my mind has lead me down a
slippery slope, and I've taken it by the hand and let
it carry me away.
I forgot for a moment about the toolbox I carry to
work with me. Inside I have an ample supply of
positive solutions to my mind's negations. On days
like this I say to the dragon, "Time Out" and back to
his lair he goes. Out of my toolbox I take pen and
paper, set a timer for three minutes and write down
everything I've done from waking up to this very
moment. In this simple action I have affirmed the
truth that I have been productive today.
So,
next time you're face to face with your own dragon,
open the toolbox. Use the tools.
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| Tick Tock... (go ahead - chuck the clock) |
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Sometimes you just need to forget the clock and ask
yourself, "how shall I live with integrity today and
how can I continue to
serve as an inspiration to others?"
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Rob Kanzer, President
The Portsmouth and Cambridge
Coaching
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Portsmouth Coaching Collaborative meeting,
December 13, 2005..
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December 15, 2005..
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